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There is an old
quote about getting the same results over and over again
that sounds something like this:
If you
always do what you've always
done,
you
will always get what you've always
gotten!
Look around at all
the aspects of your life -- your relationships,
the issues you struggle with at work, financial
situations, and your health results. Are your life
situations staying frustratingly the same without change
or progress? If so, there's good news and bad
news. The bad news is that you are probably
exasperated with the same old challenges showing up in
your life... this feeling exudes a particular
vibration that attracts more of the same. The good
news is that we now know why everything
stays the same. Our vibration is
responsible for attracting all
outcomes in our lives ... and we now know how to
change our vibration! That's
the beauty and simplicity of paying attention to the Law of
Attraction.
One of the common
ways we exude a "vibration" is through the many
conversations we have with our friends, family members,
co-workers and ourselves during each 24 hour
day. We consciously choose to have certain
conversations, such as...
"Can you
believe what he did?"
"Can you
believe what she said?"
"When is
the economy going to
improve?"
"Well,
I'm getting older, of course my body
creaks..."
"I'm ok,
at least I'm getting by..."
Do you sound like
this sometimes? I know I do, until I catch myself
in the act of creation!
As you have heard me
say before, your vibration is more important
than your words. So I invite you to
take an honest look at and examine the words of your
conversations. All of your words carry energy. And
underneath your words is a
specific vibration.
Conversations carry
energy...
Energy
carries vibrations...
Vibrations attract resonant
vibrations.
Sometimes
we use habitual conversational styles, ones that
don't suit our new desires to improve our lives.
Other times we use conversational "tics" such as
ending every conversation with "Whatever..." or ending our sentences with "It is what it is.." both of which exude a
discouraging, helpless vibration.
Empowerment is
possible, even if you are in a dark, discouraged, "why
bother" emotional place. How do we get and feel
empowered?
We
need to do something about our
vibration,
which
often means doing something
about
the vibration of our
conversations.
Are you aware of the
energy of your conversations? Do your
conversations raise or lower your vibration? Do
your own conversations make you feel better or worse?
Are your words accurate or dramatic? Negative or
positive? Optimistic or pessimistic? It all
matters!
You
can change your vibration as
soon
as
your next conversation!
It's all energy
-- as you've heard from me and other Law of Attraction teachers
before -- negative, depressing, powerless
conversations create depressing vibrations.
Positive, appreciative, uplifting conversations create
uplifting vibrations.
So how
do you "improve" your
conversational
energy?
Find
out what it is first!
It might be easier
to start with observing and hearing other people's
conversations. When you walk away from your
friend, do you feel better or worse? What were
her/his words? When you finish the meeting with
your co-workers, do you feel better or worse? What
words or phrases did they use to put out energy?
When you get off the phone with your
mother/sister/brother etc, how do you
feel? After paying attention to your feelings
after other people's conversations, start looking at
your own words and conversational energy.
These are important
questions to answer:
How many
times a day do you or your friends have
conversations that leave you feeling
powerless?
How many
times do you feel worse after telling someone else how
your day went?
How do
you feel when you hear yourself talk to
others?
How do
you feel after having conversations with
yourself???
Are you
aware when negative vibrations are behind the words you
are speaking?
Yes, many
times we talk in habitual phrases,
not aware of what we are really saying or
really exuding. But we can change these
habits with desire, intention
and choice.
New conversations create
new
outcomes in
your life... so start
having new
conversations!
So, take back
control by trying new words, new phrases, and new
energies in your conversations. I'm not asking you
to make anything up, just watch your words, and know
that they carry energy and your vibration. It's
simple (not easy) to change your language.
A few simple phrases
that I make sure enter my conversations every day
are:
"Wouldn't it be nice
if..."
"I love
it when..."
"I know
there is a solution here..."
"I know
how to feel better..."
Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you
situations that have the same energy of the vibration
you are exuding... so pay attention to
your conversational energy,
and change it now!